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THE BROWN NOTEBOOK
by Allegra Wong
previously published in New Works Review, Summer 1998
My mother is dying, in isolation, on the top floor of Saint Anne's
Hospital in Fall River. Through her windows, she sees the gray
iridescent spires of Saint Anne's Church and the silver-green Taunton
River where she swam, after sauna with Finnish friends, when she was a
youth. This bone-colored December morning she is concerned she is late
for high school, and she cannot find her brown notebook. I tell her I
shall find it for her. Later, I do.
I find her notebook again one afternoon six weeks after she has died.
It is in her Hixville dressing table, beneath the broken House of the
Seven Gables plate which she had wrapped in an old Adams Bookstore bag.
I lift her notebook out of the drawer, take it to the shuttered bedroom
window, and open not to a draft of one of my mother's junior year
themes, but to a letter written by my grandmother to my dead sister,
Shelley.
Grandmother writes of the robins who visit the Fall River garden path
each day outside her downstairs bedroom window, the stone path just past
the larkspur and bee balm, alongside the bells of Ireland. My
grandmother tells my sister she thinks the visiting robins have
something to do with a visit from her. From her bedroom window, my
grandmother tells my sister, she watches every morning as my mother
fills the bird bath with warm water, listens to the frog she calls
Ichabod Crane plash in the pond ringed around with white and green
quartz stones, and rakes the soil around the double red peonies growing
along the Downing Street picket fence.
As I read my grandmother's lines, I smell the Downing Street soil.
Just as I smell the soil of Oak Grove Cemetery. The rotting oak and
maple leaves mix with dead geraniums and sweeten the cemetery turf.
Jonquils and pansies shoot up around my sister's pink gravestone, then
die. The breeze makes the branch tips of the willow on our family plot
brush across the face of a stone angel on someone else's.
I am a little girl, and I sit with my mother on our white wrought-iron
bench during our afternoon visits. My mother leaves bell jars of dried
statice on Shelley's grave and on those of her father and grandparents.
The robins visit. Their vermilion breasts flash among the gravestones.
I smell these memories.
I turn to another notebook page and remember robins visit my mother
every summer in Hixville, too, although she calls juncos the true
mourners, the true bearers of her grief as they sit among the dry
grasses and milkweed outside the kitchen window seal-colored November
afternoons.
Beyond the kitchen yard, and beyond the shuttered bedroom window, the
pine woods are moist and deep, and my mother writes on the last page of
the brown notebook: Dearest Shelley, I should like to begin a kind of
spiritual diary so that I can talk with you.
But my grandmother in Fall River sees the robins through the window
from her black iron bed, and she calls their daily visit a visit from
her granddaughter. She writes in the notebook she hopes she will be
lucky enough to see Shelley in heaven. Until then, she tries to be
quiet, she says, just as Shelley asks her to be.
I turn to other pages and find my mother's notebook has been shared not
only with my grandmother, but also with Shelley. I can draw, I can
read, I can write ... I can draw, read, write. Draw, read, write. I
can.
Shelley prints the words again and again. She is in the first grade at
the Davol School. It is 1955, the year she dies. She prints her
stepfather's name on a page by itself. So he will love her, as she
loves him. She prints her name, alongside his, and above hers, she
prints mine.
Dear Shelley, I'm very lonesome today. I keep looking for you. My
grandmother writes my sister another letter in the notebook with the
brown covers.
Shelley has printed 'Thank you' on several of the pages. Thank you,
Mr. Green, Miss Sullivan, Mrs. Burke. My mother has written on the
lines in between. What would you like for Christmas, Shelley? A book?
Originally my mother used the notebook for attendance-taking at her
Saint Mark's Episcopal Sunday school class. The names of her pupils --
Marita, Agnes, Jon, Linwood, Constance -- are listed for 1942-43. On
other pages are her pupils' grades received for the tests they took. Her
note to herself for the upcoming Sunday school Christmas exchange that
year mentions she will give each of her pupils a copy of Dickens's A
CHRISTMAS CAROL. The minister, Mr. Atwood, plans to read the entire
story at the Christmas service, and my mother's pupils will follow along
in their own books.
My grandmother writes to my sister. Dear, There are two little robins
come to see me every day. I feel as if it was you coming to see me, for
I'm awful lonesome without you. I hope I will meet you, if God thinks I
may, I will be so happy then. We will talk together, not of worldly
things, but nice happy things.
I look up from the pages. Like the solitary mourner in Munch's "The
Scream", I open my mouth and find I am voiceless. I have no new
language, no mourning vocabulary to ask how I shall bear a lifetime of
not being able to tell my mother I have found her notebook.
So we will be quiet and peaceful, my grandmother writes in both of her
letters. I am trying to be quiet as you would like me to be. Goodbye
for now, dear Shelley. Nana.
My grandmother's closing lines seem to be a message for me as I stand
by the shuttered window in Hixville. I shall try to be quiet and
peaceful, as all of the notebook writers would want me to be. I take my
pencil, and on the inside of the back cover I write, I'm lonesome
without you, but I shall keep looking for you. Good-bye for now, Mama
dear.
MY MOTHER IS DYING...
by Patricia Schlick
My mother is dying,
of cigarettes, and booze,
and eighty years.
My mother is dying,
So instead of voting
I pack my suitcase
Drive to the airport
Take an airplane to Cleveland.
Go to her bedside,
to be near
to stave off illness and death.
I take a taxi to University Hospitals
Mother is sitting up
watching election returns on television.
She says,
" I guess my smoking
has finally caught up with me."
My mother is dying.
My sisters and I are angry, afraid.
Mother is x rayed
to see the nature and quality of the tumor.
An ugly red presence spreading through
her lungs.
The doctor offers respiratory therapy and ibuprofen.
My sisters and I try to prove ourselves
competent to handle death. . .
I make arrangements for a hospice.
Another sister organizes medication schedules.
One makes phone calls
and provides transportation.
One moves furniture.
My mother is dying,
Has come home to die.
Home to her apartment,
The only place she ever lived alone.
She is excited to come home,
But she is not alone now.
We move furniture
From the loft
Her sanctuary
Where she hibernated
to read and write.
We have taken her hermitage
for a caregiver to sleep
A hospital technician demonstrates
respiratory therapy.
The American Cancer Society
moves in
a hospital bed and oxygen tank.
On her first night home Mother
has a glass of cabernet sauvignon,
chicken breasts, salad, and rice.
She eats only a little bit.
I sleep in the apartment the first night...
wake up to the smell of
cigarette smoking!
Despite cancer and oxygen
Mother is smoking!
My mother is dying,
And I am her nurse;
straightening beds
administering medication,
bathing, toileting
Small things need to be taken care of
while death casts a large shadow.
Studying metaphysics and poetry
Didn't prepare me to nurse
a dying woman
But studying metaphysics and poetry
taught me I couldn't avoid the fact of death.
Love makes strange roles possible
Jesus said,
"If it is possible,
let this cup pass from me;
yet not what I want but
what you want."
Now, I understand.
My mother is dying.
Today four generations of women,
Mother, her daughters,
two granddaughters and
a great-granddaughter,
take communion, receive Christ
Who will not take, this cup from us
But will hold ours hands
Through this walk to Golgotha.
My mother is dying,
I am caught up in the details
Of a dying woman's life:
Bowel movements,
respiratory therapy,
medication.
Decisions meaning
A few more days of painful life
Or a quicker death.
My mother is dying,
Is ready to die
I am ashamed
of impatience.
I am homesick
miss my husband,
working at church,
walking my Golden Retriever
This is taking a long time.
My daughters travel from busy lives
to support their mother.
One brings with her the great-grandchild
born on Mother's last birthday.
Another comes with the heartache of
a broken marriage.
The youngest flies from Germany,
leaving behind the corporate world
to scrub bathrooms and help with
medication.
A daughter sits by
my mother's bed
holding her hand,
I am behind her
hands on her shoulders.
Mother sinks and fades
She seldom leaves her bed.
She lies on her right side,
floating in and out of consciousness.
Finally,
she asks for morphine.
My mother is dying;
She smiles and laughs in her sleep.
With whom is she laughing?
Dad, my brother, her parents?
What memories are there for her
As she struggles to breathe?
My mother is dying;
We have our last conversation.
Mother believed that if only everyone
would vote Republican
Have cocktails at 5:00 pm everyday
and never talk of unpleasant things
all would be well.
I
didn't do any of these things.
Mother said to me that morning,
"I always loved you.
I just could never
understand you."
My three sisters and I stay in Mother's room.
We scatter ourselves around the bed.
We hold Mother, tell her
how much we love her.
Tell her Dad is waiting.
A song plays.
It is
"The Very Thought of You",
My parents special song.
How nice!
One of my sisters played the tape.
We all listen and weep.
When a commercial comes on
I realize none of us
have planned this moment.
Mother is gasping, struggling for each breath.
The nurse gives her last cocktail. A shot of morphine
with a honey chaser.
At 4:30 AM, she lets out a rattling gasp,
her chest rises, and falls
then nothing
silence
I sit watching her still body
and wish her well
On a journey neither of us understood.
She hadn't known where she was going,
I didn't know where she was.
I sit beside her body keening,
"Oh, Mother Mother Mother "
I wash her body.
It is the last thing I can do.
On the day after her death
Natalie Cole sings
"The Very Thought of You"
on the CD in Mother's loft.
I wrIte in my journal.....
My mother is dead.
And We Are All Idiots
by William Benjamin Jenkins
(INSTEAD OF LINKING NAME TO BIO
ON CONTRIBUTORS PAGE, LINK TO SITE AT
http://www.willsworld.com/wmsroom.htm)
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This page is dedicated to the memory
of William Benjamin Jenkins,
a sixteen year-old homicide victim.
I know nothing of good or evil or the reason behind the horrors of man
I know little of a god or what scripture or interpretation is truth
One will say that to be a true believer and lover of the lord is to hate your fellow man for the simple pigment of their flesh
Many will say hell waits for those who do not redeem themselves, yet they should beg for redemption themselves
No one race is superior and no one belief is the way to salvation
How are we to judge which god to believe when so many from such "denominations" preach words of hate supposedly derived from "the holy book"
Who are we to judge who will be slaves and who will be kings when the actions of so many reflect so many fools?
William was shot and killed during a robbery
at the restaurant where he was on his second day of work.
He was sixteen years-old at the time.
At the following link you will find
the story of William's life, and death,
along with many links and resources
for those suffering traumatic and other losses.
http://www.willsworld.com/